AITA for not speaking at my friend's wedding?

My friend+maid of honor "Katie" is getting married. We have known each other for almost 15 years. I flew out to where the wedding was happening (over seas) and was there a few days before the wedding. <br><br>During the wedding reception I was allotted time to give my speech as MOH. Before I was about to give my speech, I excused myself and went to the bathroom. When I came back, everyone had already finished eating and the cake was being served - so my speech was skipped over, the time passed and no one went after it. I was not looking for drama, so I just let it go. The speeches were brief, and not many people spoke. I just decided to enjoy the rest of the wedding and let it go. <br><br>My speech was about her and our relationship. We've known each other for 15 years. We met in college. She moved to the other side of the world and I had not seen her in over 7 years. I had a lot to say in my speech that no one else could say. I had also flown 30+ hours to get there, so it was very disappointing that it was skipped over. <br><br>I also noticed Katie did not seem very excited to see me, as it had been so long. She was very preoccupied - so I was fine with that. <br><br>I have received a few messages from family and friends saying they were disappointed I didn't speak. I also have a bunch of photos and photoshoot photos of me and Katie together - and I was thinking of posting but that may cause more drama. <br><br>Was I an asshole for not speaking up and giving a speech?