What's the safest recreational drug?

For context, I'm a high-functioning addict that has been to rehab and gone through therapy in the past but still doesn't see the need to live a completely sober life, I'm an adult and I know what I'm doing but I want to minimize the damage (kind of like someone that knows the damage alcohol or cigarettes can do but still consume them in a moderate way), I currently consume: alcohol, cigarettes, weed, xanax, and cocaine (each at a moderate level, no IV or addictive behaviour), but I want to explore or substitute some of that consumption to something safer.<br><br>pd: I've done extensive research myself but I'm looking for real world experiences and not just what science says.