Anyone else find it strange how the language people use is a thinly veiled code to socially punish men?

Rant incoming<br><br>Why is it that the language people use today is a thinly veiled code to socially punish men? I mean it's a never ending barrage of vague, loaded phrases that never actually go into detail about what the person actually did wrong.<br><br>"I'm looking for a partner who is confident and, you know, not toxic."<br><br>Translation: Men are a threat and we need to be unable to trust them. Their "toxicity" is a threat to women, don't trust that their kindness is genuine.<br><br>"It's socially acceptable to talk about how much men suck."<br><br>Translation: Women should openly express contempt and disdain for men, because men are lesser.<br><br>"I find it really sexy when a man takes care of himself."<br><br>Translation: Women are gatekeepers of what is attractive or not and what a "sexy" man is. Men are to conform to their beauty standards.<br><br>"I get along way better with men than women, but I'm not like, a trad wife or anything."<br><br>Translation: Women are catty and difficult to deal with, while men are simple-minded and much easier to get along with. Women are, of course, better than men and are not "traditional."<br><br>Of course all men think with their dicks.<br><br>Of course are all men socially inept.<br><br>Of course all men are just a little bit violent.<br><br>Of course all men are just a little bit rapey.<br><br>If you don't believe me, just look at all the posts about women's experiences with "misogynistic" and "sexist" men. What did those men actually do? No one ever actually knows. It's just a social, cultural force of nature that somehow just happens to affect women more.<br><br>It makes me sick that people just accept this never-ending narrative as a social given. Every man is a threat, a child that cannot be trusted.<br><br>That's why I hate people.