I'm beginning to think blackpill is an attempt to gaslight men into thinking it's the man's fault when it's the woman who's in control.

You'll see a lot of posts with titles like "I found out she was hot and now I hate her." Or "My sisters friend was receptive to my flirting and now I feel emasculated." There are even posts like "I hate how men are treated. We're not allowed to be vulnerable and we're shamed for showing emotions." This is the man's burden. Women on the other hand are seen as saints for being vulnerable. They're seen as saints when they're mean.<br><br>There's even this weird idea that it's our responsibility to make sure the woman is happy. We know it's our fault when she cheats, because she 'must have been unhappy in the relationship.' We know it's our fault when a woman gets fat. We know it's our fault when she's being mean. We even know that it's our responsibility when a woman decides to not work, but still wants luxury and comfort; because she deserves to be treated like a princess.<br><br>This chamber has even convinced men that it's the man's fault when women are hypergamous. We know that it's not the woman's responsibility to remain loyal. We know that she might leave us for a man with more status, better looks, more money, etc. We know that it's our fault because we should have been more attractive to begin with. We know that it's our responsibility to make sure she doesn't cheat. It's our responsibility to be better looking, have better game, be more interesting, make more money, and to be funnier.<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>I think blackpill is a way to skirt around the fact that women are in control. They want us to think it's our fault because it's our responsibility to live up to certain expectations. This is to prevent men from blaming women for their failures. After all, this sub is an attempt to prevent men from going violent over being rejected, dumped, or cheated on.