My ex-wife used our wedding vows against me while IP...

My ex-wife had a child that came from a one night stand. It was a little girl. She ended up finding out around 5-6 months pregnant. We met at a party in college and were married 2 years together. I knew this girl came from a very religious family, so that’s why I brought God into my vows.<br><br>About 5 months into the marriage I felt like a surrogate dad. I spent my paycheck on the baby, while she went clubbing with friends pretty much 3 times a week. I would send money and come home to the baby being on the floor, drunk women scattered everywhere. So I decided to end the marriage. It was basically a sham.<br><br>The next day, she found out she was pregnant and used my vows against me. She said we used the word till death do us part while standing in front of God. I told her our marriage was basically dead in my eyes and I didn’t believe the baby was mine. She also was blackmailing me with a child support lawsuit. I didn’t want to pay money to a little bastard she was carrying. So we IP for a paternity test. It was not my child. It was a huge argument for years. She was so enraged at me when she realized the baby was not mine.<br><br>After years of this argument, she claimed she had a new man and was going to start a family. I told her don’t you remember all the rounds of chlamydia you had while you were married to me? Don’t you remember the time your parents kicked you out because you brought a bunch of guys to their house and had a gang bang? Don’t you remember you slept with an entire football team while you were married to me?<br><br>She was so mad at me because I had her where she knew she didn’t have a shot with the next man she was dating. She just realized a few days ago that I don’t give AF about her and the men she was out fucking when she was married to me ended up being pretty much the only men she got to f*ck, because it’s a bunch of older men. So I told her if you would have just stayed faithful, you probably would not have had any problems with fertility. She said I don’t want you I just don’t want you to be happy. So I told her I’m having a baby with my current wife, she hung up on me. A few days later she calls and tries to act like a victim and I’m the one that ruined her life. So I told her, no you ruined your life. I just don’t care anymore. Then the phone dies. I get a voicemail, she’s asking for $5,000? I’m calling her around 8pm and I’m pretty sure she’s drunk. I tell her no and I’m going to start a new family and moving on with my life. So we used to go to church and she used to say a prayer before bed each night for God to watch over us while we sleep. So I tell her to relax and say a prayer for a good night’s sleep. She says “oh so it’s that easy huh?” I told her yes it’s that easy. Then she says “I’m going to die alone” I said oh probably. I’m going to be with someone that loves and respects me unlike you. We are not the same person anymore. We both have a lot to live for. IP a paternity test will save you a life of heartache.