I can't absolve myself of responsibility because I'm a man.

The "Manosphere" goes on and on about being responsible for myself absolving me of all responsibility for other people. They also make it clear that providing for a woman or a children is a part of that. But what they refuse to acknowledge is that women don't want to be a provider. That's not the job women want. They want to provide what they can provide and to receive what they can not provide for themselves. They want to be loved and appreciated for what they provide and to be in turn loved and appreciated by others in the way they want. So long as providing for a woman and children comes with a sense of duty and responsibility with no emotional pay off, absolving myself of all responsibility to provide still absolves me of all responsibility to provide. What the "Manosphere" ultimately want is a system where women are required to do all the house work and child rearing with no pay absolving men of all responsibility absolving men of all financial responsibility. Most women don't want a one way transaction any more than most men do. They just want to be loved/appreciated for what they do. If a man wants to be absolved of all responsibility for a woman and children, absolving a woman of all responsibility is the only way that will happen.