My (34m) wife (31f) doesn’t put on clothes when we have food delivered.
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My (34m) wife (31f) never wants to put on clothes when we have food delivered. It doesn’t matter if it’s 12pm or 9pm, she will be in her PJs. I have begged her to put on something, anything. A skirt and crop top, jeans and a T shirt, anything so she doesn’t answer the door essentially topless. I don’t know what to do. I’ve told her to respect our community, the delivery driver and me. I’ve told her to put some clothes on because our son (5) is growing up. None of it has worked. Do I just let her turn our home into a nudist camp? I’m at my wits end on this stupid thing and it’s starting to make me hate her and think she’s an embarrassment. I just want my wife to put on clothes and look normal but she refuses to. Any thoughts on how to get her to put clothes on would be greatly appreciated. I don’t want to shame her for wanting to be in comfortable clothes but I don’t want to be shamed for living in a street where the lady in house 32 walks around with no top on.<br><br>Edit: I feel like I need to explain that my wife doesn’t even wear a bra, it’s literally pajamas pants or shorts and a T shirt with no bra.<br><br>Edit 2: I feel I need to clarify something super quick. My issue is with how my wife presents herself to others. I don’t care if she’s wearing arms or not in the house. What I care about is when she answers the door, she doesn’t have a bra on. This has become a massive issue for me and I don’t know what to do.<br><br>Edit 3: I think there’s a massive misunderstanding of where I live. I live in England and not the southern US. There absolutely is a social standard and my wife doesn’t meet it. I’m really tired of people saying “it’s just a top, it’s not like she’s Gardening topless and sunbathing.” It’s not that she doesn’t have a top on. It’s that she doesn’t have a bra on. It’s hilarious to me that everyone is attacking me and my “policing” of my wife’s body. I don’t care if she doesn’t have a top on. I care that she doesn’t have a bra on. This has become a massive issue and I don’t know what to do.<br><br>Edit 4: The only people who have seen my wife with no bra on are the postal worker, Amazon delivery driver and the food delivery driver. Everyone else sees her with a bra on and most of the time, a shirt as well.
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