I finally understand the "nobody got nothing" mindset, and I agree with it.

Maybe some of you have heard of the phrase "nobody got nothing" but for the unaware - it's a mindset that you don't worry about if you're topping the other men around you, you only care about taking what is yours. You don't need to prove anything or compete with anyone - you just need to go out and get what you want. It's a great way to live.<br><br>I used to compare my life to my friends and acquaintances - but I realized that's a terrible way to live, and it's very un-blackpill. A blackpill mind set should view other's success as proof it is attainable to you (if they did it, so can you) or proof that you can do it better. You can say "wow, great for them, their success is a good thing and I can do it better" or "wow, no thanks on that, that's not the life I want for myself, I'm happy with the life I have."<br><br>Obviously, none of us want their lives to be like what the simps call "winning." But their idea of "winning" is at least somewhat enviable, they have some success. I still say their success is an L but it is still some success. But their lives are examples what winning looks like, and you can either strive for that, or decide you want something different.<br><br>When the average "unsuccessful" person looks in the mirror, and realizes that the reason they don't have friends is because they're a boring loser, or the reason they don't have their dream job is because they're unqualified, etc. - the first thing they do is try to change themselves, they want to become someone else so that they can finally achieve that success they've been longing for. But that is the wrong approach.<br><br>The reason they want to change themselves is because they don't like who they are, they view themselves as inadequate and inferior to others. But the number one thing you need to be successful is confidence. And if you don't like yourself, then you can't be confident. Confidence is liking yourself no matter what, it's taking ownership of your flaws.<br><br>You can't change yourself, and you don't need to. You are great just the way you are. The reason you don't have what you want is because you want the wrong things. You don't need a new job, a new house, new friends, or a new you. You need what will make you happy. And when you realize that, you finally understand the "nobody got nothing" mindset.