How is it that /fit/, /sk/, and /fa/ don't get the concept of "don't talk about it you dumbass"?

Like, what the fuck, it's utterly everywhere. Fat acceptance and shit. I don't think that there is anyone who cares about how much you weigh, not in the way that you think.<br><br>If anything, everyone is so terrified of hurting anyone's feelings and they act polite, so they can't let you know that, hey, you might want to lose a couple pounds because right now, you're in danger, and here's how you can do it. But they never fucking say things clarely because they are terrified of being branded sexist, racist, or fatphobic because of something they said. But nobody ever talks about it, and that's how the fuck it should be. Everyone should just be able to act politely, and not act like assholes.