My (22F) boyfriend (24M) peed on my wedding dress that was hanging up after I rejected going to a strip club for his bachelor party.

My fiancé (call him Eric) and I are not supposed to see each other until the rehearsal tomorrow, but he pulled a massive stunt last night and I am so confused how he thought that this was okay and I really just want to know if I’m overreacting for wanting to call off the wedding. <br><br>Eric’s friend from college, (let’s call him Mike) is in town for the wedding and wanted to go to a strip club for Eric’s bachelor party. Eric and I have been together for eight years, and we’ve never been to one before, but I figured it would be Eric’s last night out as a single guy and wanted to be a cool girlfriend and do something special for him. <br><br><br>I went "out" with Eric and Mike, meaning, we went to a few bars and I had a drink in the car with them as we drove around. The whole time they thought that I was actually drinking and they didn’t catch on until we went into the last bar of the night and I asked for a soda and juice. <br><br><br>They were pissed that I had lied to them and then when they realized that I had been sober the entire night, they were really upset that I had pretended to be drinking. I told them that it was so they wouldn’t know that I was actually keeping an eye on them. Eric told me that I was being childish and that I shouldn’t have tried to trick them. I told him that I just wanted to make sure that they were okay and I didn’t want to ruin his fun. <br><br><br>He asked me if I wanted to go to the strip club with them and I said no. I told him that I didn’t have a problem with him going, but I just personally didn’t want to go and I would rather go home and get some rest for the wedding. He asked me again and I said no again, which really pissed him off and he yelled at me in the car in front of his friend for not being willing to just do this one thing for him. <br><br><br>I was so embarrassed and told him that I was going home and I didn’t want to do anything anymore because I wasn’t being disrespected and spoken to like that. <br><br><br>When we got to my parent’s house, I got out of the car and went inside. I heard the car pull off a few minutes later and felt bad thinking that I had ruined his bachelor party so I sent him a text saying that if he wanted me to I would try again but he didn’t respond. <br><br><br>I was upset that he wasn’t responding so I called his friend Mike to see if he was okay and if I should try again. Mike told me that Eric was really drunk and had passed out at his hotel so I told Mike I was going to bed and I would talk to Eric in the morning. <br><br><br>When I came downstairs this morning to make some coffee, my mom was in the kitchen and she looked really upset. I asked her what was wrong and she told me that Eric had shown up really drunk at around 2am and that he had peed on my wedding dress that was hanging up in the living room. <br><br><br>Apparently he smelled like urine so she thinks that he might have also peed himself, but she didn’t say for sure. She told me that after he did that, he tried to open the cabinet where we’re keeping the liquor and when he couldn’t he tried to break in but couldn’t so he passed out on the floor. <br><br><br>She said that in the morning they Labourers came and moved him into the garage and Labourer and his wife cleaned up the mess. My dress is ruined and I don’t know what to do. I am so confused as to why he would do that. He’s never done anything like this before and I don’t know what he was thinking when he thought that this was okay. <br><br><br>I’m thinking about calling off the wedding but I don’t know. I really don’t even want to see him right now. I feel so disrespected and disgusted that he would do something like this. He’s never been mean to me before so I’m just lost on what to do.