My husband is a great dad and a great husband but gives me no attention

We have this unnatural bond. We met at 16 and 17, became boyfriend and girlfriend at 18, moved in together at 21, got married at 24, and had our first child at 25. We dated for 6 years before getting married. We’ve been a couple for 13 years now and have been married for 10. We are now 30. We have 2 beautiful children, a daughter (5) and a son (3). Their names are Eris and Ronan. <br><br>My husband is a great man, but he has always prioritized family over me. He is a great provider. He works hard on our farm from sun up to sun down almost every day. My job is to take care of the children and household. He is great to the children and to me. He is kind and always is willing to lend a helping hand. He takes the kids to school and picks them up most days of the week. He is a good man. <br><br>I just wish he cared more about our marriage and was more attentive. While it would be nice if he helped more with the house, I don’t really care about that part. It’s frustrating but I would be happy to do all the housework for the rest of my life if it meant he would show me some attention. We have sex about once a week. It’s always the same routine. He comes home and we immediately go to bed. I feel like we’re just animals that need to procreate. I wanted to feel wanted. I feel like he doesn’t even look at me anymore. Sometimes I catch myself imagining myself with other men. While it would devastate me to cheat on my husband, I feel like I’m alone so much in this marriage. It’s like we’re siblings raising our children together. He doesn’t touch me or kiss me. Never compliments me. Never wants to spend time together alone. We haven’t had a date night in years. I think he said I love you to me last month once. I feel so alone and unwanted. <br><br>I don’t know what to do and I know this sounds so stupid. But I never wanted this kind of life. I feel like I’m just a mother and a housekeeper. He is my best friend in the world. I couldn’t love him more. I just want some excitement and passion in our marriage again.