Everyone is different.

Your first girlfriend is not going to be 25, single, intelligent, talented with an 8 figure net worth, like you for who you are, can go for walks on the beach, go to restaurants, cook for you and scrub your back in the bathtub, make you laugh, give you good things that you’ve never had in your whole life.<br><br>That’s not how it works. If she had all those qualities, she’s not going to look at you and fall in love. You will be an amazing guy in these ways and the universe will reward you in these ways. But you will only receive what you give.<br><br>If you’re lonely, find someone like you. You’re both lonely, so you’ll both understand each other. You’ll both be different in your own ways, but you also share loneliness. You will find out what you can give each other.<br><br>If you find someone who became lonely after her divorce because she wanted to be married and get divorced to get a million dollars, then she doesn’t want anything you have. You can still be friends, but she will never see you in a different way.<br><br>If you find someone who became lonely because she dedicated her life to training for the Olympics, then she will never understand you. She might even be totally turned off by you. If you dedicate your life to something you love and make it to the top, you will find someone like you. You just have to be patient.<br><br>If you’re a soldier and you’re lonely, find someone else who is lonely. You already have a purpose and you already understand each other. You will support each other. You can be friends. There’s nothing wrong with this. You hit the jackpot. You don’t even understand what you have.