Husband wants me (F34) to stop making “perverted sounds” when I orgasm

I cannnot believe I’m actually posting about this but I really need advice. <br><br>My husband (M39) and I have been married for 5 years and together for 11. He’s my first partner and is the only person I’ve ever been with so I don’t know if it’s just me. <br><br>I’ve always been loud when I masturbate and when I have sex with my husband. For context, when I’m masturbating I’m pretty loud. I moan and I make a lot of “sex noises” (whimper, groan, etc) pretty much throughout the whole thing but when I’m about to cum, the noises become more urgent and intense and I just sort of lose myself. When I’m close to cumming I’m usually saying things like “yes! yes! yes!” or “I’m gonna cum” and I always scream when I cum. When I’m masturbating, I’ll just usually scream without any words but when I’m with my husband, I usually just say things like “I’m gonna cum” or “you’re gonna make me cum” and just say “yes”. <br><br>For the longest time, I thought my neighbors knew what I was doing when I was masturbating because the sounds I make are just so loud and even now I kind of wonder if my neighbors could hear me screaming from the other side of the wall. <br><br>When I was with my husband, he never said anything about the noises I made and he always seemed to enjoy them. However, just recently, when we were having sex, he literally stopped and said “I don’t want to hear all that screaming, stop making those noises” and I was just so shocked because I didn’t expect that at all. I asked him what he meant and he said that he doesn’t like it when I make a lot of noise because it makes him uncomfortable. He said I sounded like a pervert or a porn star when I’m screaming and making noises. I told him that it’s just my body’s natural response and I can’t really control it but he just kept saying I can control it and I should control it and I got so mad I just left to go sleep. <br><br>I just honestly don’t understand why he would say that. I’m just so confused how he could say that I sound like a porn star when I cum as though it’s a bad thing. I’m more confused as to why he would be mad about it now when he’s never said anything about it in the past. <br><br>What’s wrong with making noise when I orgasm?