As a gay man, I have a great deal of respect for my fellow men due to blackpill

I've been writing about Blackpill and I've come to the conclusion that so many men who are unattractive and socially inept are incredibly vulnerable and susceptible to getting hurt by people due to their vulnerability and lack of self-consciousness and self-awareness of their environment. They are vulnerable and susceptible to getting hurt by people because they do not have the awareness to predict and prevent the hurt from happening to them, as they are constantly caught off guard when bad things happen to them. This is how they end up getting screwed over, and how they end up getting hurt. Due to getting hurt repeatedly and getting burned so many times, many men are antisocial or just take time for themselves to be alone and recover from the stress of the constant rejection and hurtful ordeals that they were subject to. I respect men with self-awareness that know when to speak up and assert themselves, but ultimately I respect the men that have been hurt so many times that they are just quiet and keep to themselves and opt out of the dating game and just put their own well-being and mental health first, because that takes a lot of strength to be able to do that and put their own needs first. I saw a video of a guy similar to this and it made me feel sad, and I just feel bad that he got hurt this way, and I just want to give him a hug. I feel terrible that he had to go through this, and I just wish that he had thicker skin and was more aware of how mean people can be and he was just able to stop it before it happened. I just wish that he could find a way to be able to get what he wants, as everyone deserves to be happy and find who they want to be loved by, and that he didn't have to go through getting hurt, but he's strong and he will be okay. I just want to give him a hug, and I just feel bad that he is getting hurt right now.