I (28F) think my husband (29M) is cheating again
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I'm not even sure why I'm writing this other than to hear myself say it out loud. Things just seem worse than ever right now. We've been married for 8 years and have two small children. In May, I found out he was having an affair with a coworker. It all came crashing down, and they both lost their jobs. I found emails, texts, receipts from hotels, everything. There was even a night his coworkers didn't cover for him and his lie fell apart. <br><br>We are in marriage counseling, both separately and together, and neither one of us has thrown in the towel yet. I'm still so hurt, and it has been a long and arduous process. It's hard to put a time stamp on when you'll be over something like that. <br><br>He started a new job in July, and things seemed okay. In fact, they seemed better than okay. He was communicating everything to me, from who was in the meetings he went to, to making sure I always knew where he was and who he was with. I could track his drives, so I knew when he was driving. He started leaving his phone out, and he was just transparent about every aspect of his day. <br><br>That all ended about three weeks ago. He stopped sharing his drive history. He just keeps his phone in his pocket again. He stopped telling me about his day. Then, his job moved to in office, and I started to notice that his clothes were cleaner than expected. Like, how does a long sleeve shirt and jeans get so clean just driving into the office? That is what made me think the worst again. And of course, his company didn't do background checks on any of their employees. He also works in sales, so he has to travel for his job. He goes out of town 2-3 times a month for 2-3 nights at a time. I don't know what he does, and I know it isn't any of my business. <br><br>I don't know what to do. He knows how hurt his affair made me, and I really don't know if I can do this again.
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