My (20F) bf's (21M) kink is degrading me, but I'm not into it. How do I make it work?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years, and we are really in love. We are each other's best friend and normally have lots of fun together. I also love that he is not afraid to show me off to his friends and family, so I don't think he's ashamed of me. <br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>We've been sexually active for most of the relationship, and we have explored lots of things together. Bf is always eager to explore more, and he usually asks me to do lots of stuff in the bedroom (like being on top or doing 69) that I'm not comfortable with. He isn't pushy, but he always asks, and I don't like to be a prude so I usually say yes, even though I'm not into it. He seems to love it, and seeing that happy face and hearing his happy noises is so rewarding to me. So I'm happy to do these things for him, but I don't love them.<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>Lately, he has been wanting to engage in degrading acts with me. He wants to call me degrading names, but only in the moment. He wants to choke me, but says he knows how to do it in a way that won't hurt me. He wants to degrade me and call me names while we do certain things with foods. He wants to use a toy on me to degrade me anally. I'm not really comfortable with any of this stuff. I don't want to be called horrible names by the man I love. I don't want to be doing anything anal with a toy. But he's been begging me for awhile, and he says it would make him really happy. I want to make him happy, but I don't want to do any of it. Is there a way I can like, compromise? Do you think I can pretend to be into it, and get him to stop wanting to do it? I don't want to do anything that I don't want to do, but I don't want to deprive him of this if it's so important to him. What should I do?