Why are men so insensitive

Went to the store earlier today with a friend and saw a guy with a very unattractive mask made of cotton almost like a t-shirt, he kinda kept glaring towards us and I was wondering if he wouldn’t like us to come closer but it’s not like we were, then I approached him to ask if I can see some of the candies he was looking at and boom he said “are you deaf I said stay away from me I’m immunocompromised” now I’m genuinely wondering WHY he approached us if he ended up glaring towards us after we approached him??? Then he said because he doesn’t trust us and that we’re “gypsies” we’re not gypsies, just two Arab women (no offense to gypsies, you’re not the problem) and I’m seriously wondering WHY he was approaching us and he told us that we were on “his side” I never knew there were sides we’re just two women taking the shopping trolleys back to their places we’re not obligated to do it but it’s always a better feeling to see a nice person coming after you and taking those for you to show their humanity and kindness, I seriously don’t know what’s wrong with men but this attitude isn’t acceptable at all, I think they don’t even have the slightest bit of humanity inside them, I don’t know if you’ve experienced anything similar to this but this was really upsetting, all I wanted was to go home and eat my breakfast and just chill but no, men always have to ruin it no matter what, then he said that he’s against this “gender” and that he hates “gypsies” we’re not even fucking gypsies, it’s just Arab women going grocery shopping, I guess for him every woman who’s not originally from the country we’re in right now is a gypsy??? Then he said he’s been tested positive and he’s sick and is in a bad mental state because of that, he also said that he’s for women and that he’s a feminist (no offense to the feminist men, you’re not the problem) this is just a thing we all experience and those who agree with us are just the decent human beings, I thought I was gonna cry but I told my friend what happened and she said that his behavior tells a lot about his personality and attitude and he’s sick so I should take that as a win against his personality and that he’s the one who was wrong and that I have nothing to feel sorry about, I wanted to add this has nothing to do with Arab women against men or any other nationality against men, this was just my bad experience that I wanted to share, my friend who was with me was a German woman who is originally Russian but I know they’re not Russian, they just lived in Russia when they were younger, she’s very nice and we always have a great time and I’m really happy to have her in my life :) also I’m not sorry for my English nobody’s perfect.