Why is everyone who takes an interest in me borderline?

I’ve gotta take a step back. I’ve gotta shake those who are disordered and find the few good ones. I just had another relationsip collapse and just found out my new interest has BPD. I am bipolar with ADHD myself and I know how difficult my symptoms can be, but at least I am aware of them. I don’t know if love is real or if I’m just desperate because I’ve got nobody.