I am a lesbian, and I've seen the way men online speak...

... about straight and gay women, and I am appalled. I am terrified to ever end up in a relationship with a woman again because lesbians are seen as being "easy" to men, and men seem to feel entitled to women, both straight and gay. How tf am I supposed to trust a man enough to even date him? I am afraid that if I were to end up with a woman, I would have to constantly be on the alert for the next man to try something. I am afraid because I know I am strong and independent, and I can protect myself, but I don't want to have to. I want to be able to live my life, love whoever I want, without a man ruining it for me. I am angry, and I am hurt, and I just wanted to feel safe to love whoever I want to.