I accidentally found out my husband has been cheating and I'm not going to divorce him.

I'm 29F and my husband is 31M. We have no kids together. We've been married for 10 years and together for almost 15 years now. <br><br>I found out last week that my husband had been cheating when I accidentally turned on his phone asking Siri to call me an Uber. I heard a text come through saying "hey sexy, can't wait to see you again when you get back" with the words "one new message from my husband's booty call" underneath. <br><br>I just stood there frozen in shock, I didn't even get an Uber, I just walked out of his house and drove to my mum's. <br><br>I looked through his phone when I got to my mum's and found a whole conversation between him and the woman. it was disgusting to see his messages but i made myself read them all thinking it would help me feel worse than better. <br><br>The messages showed him meeting up with her and him coming to her house on multiple occasions and they seemed to have a lot of sexting conversations. The sexting conversations made me sick to even look at but when I found out he had apparently came in her mouth, that made me feel like I needed to throw up. <br><br>I read the messages and just felt empty inside, yes I was upset but I just couldn't believe he would do that to me and I felt like I needed to get myself together to sort it out. <br><br>I confronted him the next day. He was crying and tried to make excuses and try to make me feel bad and share the blame when I told him I knew about his affair. He tried to say I hurt him and claim I was a terrible wife when I told him I'd rather die than suck his dick. <br><br>I stood my ground and said I want a divorce but told him I wasn't leaving the house until everything was sorted since I bought the house we live in and I choose to live in it sometimes. <br><br>He needed to get a lawyer because I wasn't going to leave and I did everything to make sure he knew he had to leave instead. <br><br>I want a divorce but I don't want to take any shit from him. So when it comes to the divorce, I'm going to share everything 50/50 including my house but when I get my new house, I don't want anything from our marriage in it. <br><br>I'm going back to my maiden name. He doesn't get any photos of us, I'm keeping all the wedding photos and I'm keeping all the gifts I've been bought. <br><br>I'm going to wear the best clothes and jewellery I have to our divorce hearing and I'm going to leave it all behind. <br><br>I'm going to make sure he knows he doesn't deserve a cent from me and I'm going to go all out to make him pay for hurting me like he did. <br><br>I'm going to ruin his life for a short time and make sure he regrets hurting me.