Can't believe my dad.

After my breakup a few days ago, my dad called and wanted to talk with me about it. For some reason he's on the side of my ex and not mine, even though he knows my ex told him about my alleged infidelity because my ex is my dads best friend, which is a little bit weird if you ask me.<br><br>He told me that I should stop lying to him about my infidelity, even though I am telling the truth. He also said that I should be happy that my ex allowed me to grow up and learn new things in a new environment. And that I am responsible for the breakup even though she was the one that tried to force me to go back to my home country and our original university for the rest of our lives. What really hurt me was that he said I deserve everything that happened to me. He said that I am a womanizer and that my ex finally got the strength to kick the dog out. I didn't know what he meant except that he is my dads best friend. But I don't remember ever being a womanizer or anything. I don't even remember my ex ever accusing me of cheating or anything.<br><br>I mean I do have a new haircut and I did lose some weight since last year, but I don't know if that qualifies me as a womanizer.<br><br>Sorry for the rant, but I am not really feeling good and my friend is trying to help me to get over my ex and to be happy and move on without her.