How to make MGTOW great again
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Mgtow is suffering from a decline in popularity and acceptance in recent years. A part of the problem is that we have been a victim to our success. A big side effect of this sub is the sudden surge in solo activities that were only done by men before . The gyms, sports centers, coffeehouses , parks , museums and restaurants are filled with women now. Most of the cool activities that they used to shame men for doing are now overrun with women. The concept of Hypergamy has been much more widely known in recent years. A lot of unmarried women who previously thought they could secure an alpha would sleep around and then "find the one", settle down and live happily ever after are finding out they have been misled. They were sold a bill of goods. Feminism has betrayed them. I have sympathy for these women and much rather they find us than their radicalized sisters. We have to welcome these women. All women are not feminists. All women are not the enemy. Most women do not want to be the enemy. It is an us against them mentality that has caused much of our problems in the first place. I propose we change our strategy.<br><br>The barrier to entry for women in this space is too high. Women want to be rescued from the bleakness of spinsterhood. They want to be accepted for who they are by men. They don't want to be judged. They want to be protected. They want to be loved. We are judging them too harshly for being a victim to the same system that harms us. Women who want to join us are scared to death. They want our community. They want our protection. They are finding out we are not welcoming. The first thing out of most of our mouths is "you're a dumb whore". I don't want the women to be afraid of us. I don't want them to see us as an enemy. This is a self defeating stance. We are burning bridges that we need. I don't want the women to go radical feminist because they feel hated by us. We don't need more enemies. We need more friends. How are we going to rescue a woman if she's terrified of us?<br><br>We have a lot to offer. We have a new social contract to give them. Our loyalty. Our protection. Our companionship. We have a better offer than they have now. We would be a lot more attractive if we could show empathy to these lost souls without judging them. This doesn't mean we have to accept them as wives or anything close to that. We just have to humanize them. The flip side to this is our loyalty to each other. We also have to be careful not to get too close to women. Our loyalty is to each other. We have to be careful not to fall into the traditional " alpha orbit". Our loyalty is to our fellow men. If we could find a way to make our loyalty to our fellow men compatible with acceptance of women into our fold I think we could create a better place for both men and women. Mgtow could be a utopia of loyalty and companionship . We men would have a better place to socialize and find friends. Women would have a place to get away from the loneliness. Women do not want to be lonely. They do not want to be haters. But they have been failed. They have been misled. They've been betrayed. We can show them a new way. Not the way of the past but the way of the future. We can create a new structure that is better for both men and women. Our system is better. We just have to show them. And we will.
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