I'm a woman and I've been treated much better since i've worked to become more unattractive

I've never been the most conventionally attractive woman. I have weird proportions and am overweight. I've been called pretty and cute before but never a "babe" or a "smoke" or anything of the like. I've tried my hardest to work on myself and look the best I can be. I tried to lose some of my weight and was met with nothing but negative attitudes from people. They would just make fun of me for trying and for my appearance. I was tired of game and being treated poorly all the time for trying to take care of myself.<br><br>The last time I got the negative commentary from someone I decided to just abandon the idea of looking attractive. I started to let myself go and live my life the way I wanted to without trying to look the best I could. I'm 27, zoomers have popularized the idea of looking unattractive so I figured it would be the way of the world soon anyway. I decided to stop trying to be attractive and just be me and live my life how I wanted to. I would wake up and brush my hair and leave the house without showering, wearing sweatpants, lunchmeat breath, and unwashed hair. I've gained a lot of weight and I'm overweight.<br><br>I zoom for work so I just don't shower and I wear pajamas. I figured it would be a temporary solution and I'd get bored with it and try to look nice again but I've found I enjoy being able to be myself and live my life. It's been almost a year since I've started to take my appearance for granted and I've found that I'm treated much better zooming for work. I can just wake up and I don't have to do the morning routine I used to and I can just go about my day zooming. I've found that I'm treated so much better and that I get so many compliments even though I look so much worse than I used to. I used to be told I was cute but now I'm told I'm beautiful and that I'm stunning. I get compliments every day from my coworkers now whereas I barely got any before.<br><br>I no longer feel like I'm being hit on at work constantly, men don't see me as an object and they don't act like I'm stupid just because I'm a woman. They see me as a person and I'm treated like their equal.