Why highschool is a lie

Why was anyone ever naive enough to believe that highschool would be some kind of fun time where I could make friends and have the time of my life? I can’t seriously be the only one who genuinely had expectations high school would be enjoyable. I’ve been bullied, blackmailed, and I’ve been isolated. Being an incel really is like looking at the world through a different pair of goggles, I’ve been seeing highschool like the majority for years, now I see it how it really is