I'm curious about a piece of soft porn on my husband's computer. Is it cheating?

[light]I'm currently 209 weeks pregnant so gave up work to have 'me' time without the kids (I have 2 already, so this is my third). Today, I couldn't face going down the beach with them so took them to a soft play centre and logged on to our computer to begin a job search.<br><br>Lo and behold, I stumbled upon the 'recent' files and spotted one called 'florence*porno'. I work as a teacher so my heart hit my stomach, but gave him the benefit of the doubt. I opened it up and it was a video of us having sex that we'd clearly taken on our honeymoon in 2019.<br><br>Being a bit of an idiot, I then wondered WHY it was in his 'recent' files. So I opened it up and he'd clearly opened it up when I was out with the kids last week. And then again when I was at my mums house the weekend before.<br><br>I get that it's 'our' tape, but part of me is panicking. It's been years since we've watched it and we've been together 12 years... so I'm his only 'option' so to speak...<br><br>How would you feel if you discovered a video of YOUR tape in 'recent' files on a computer you share? *I feel AWFUL and tearful*[/light]