I 27m have become a bitter incel but I just got invited to join an exclusive group chat

I'm just a regular guy. I'm 5.9 170ish lbs, work as an IT manager, I'm pretty good looking and I've been told I have a great voice. But a year ago I went on a date with this girl from Facebook. I honestly don't even remember what I said to her but I recall her laughing and we decided to set a second date. I picked her up from her house and we just talked about stuff. I don't remember when exactly but she was yelling at me to "drop her off" and I was like "hey this is fucked up" and I dropped her off but stopped talking to her. <br><br>She goes on and makes an entire group chat consisting of girls from all over the city and their bfs/husbands. The group chat is dedicated to listing out all the horrible things about the people they've talked to or gone on dates with. And today one of them messaged me and asked if I was that guy who a year ago went on a date with her. She was very excited. She told me she was one of the key people behind the group chat and she said she was going to invite me right now. I'm not sure of much else besides the name of it and the amount of people in it 400+.<br><br>*Update* I've joined the group and grabbed a screenshot of the rules as well as a few posts, I also have the name of one of the people on it. I'll also do a brief audit and see how many men are in the group. There are 449 people in it. I haven't been banned yet, but I might finally get a glimpse of what it is they talk about. I will also do my best to get more pictures and bring them here. I'll update you Lads when I have more info. <br><br>*2nd update* I've been banned, the mod said the audit is done and I'll send everything tomodmail.