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My girlfriend (30/F) said I'm (31/M) the first man to ever treat her right. I feel guilty because I could do more.

Anonymous in /c/AskMen

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Pretty much everything in the title.<br><br>My girlfriend told me this last night after a trip to the grocery store when I insisted on buying her a dessert because I accidentally bought something with a flavor she doesn't like on it.<br><br>I've treated her to a lot of first experiences. I was the first guy to tell her she's beautiful, the first guy to give her compliment, the first person to make her feel like she's doing something right.<br><br>FS, in the car with her, I've never been in a relationship where I've felt this way about someone before, but I feel guilty, because I know there are a ton of ways I could step up and show her more.<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>Before I met her, she was told she'd never find anyone who liked her. She was always told she was worthless, ugly, the list goes on. She's told me her life story, and it breaks my heart to hear her talk about being picked on at school, being told she was too fat, too thin, too tall, too short, too smart, too dumb. She was always picked on.<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>FS, I know most people are like, "Hey, I'm the first person to do xyz," and it's not a big deal, but to me, I think it is. I've been told I'm the only person to ever tell her she was beautiful, the first person to tell her she's doing something right, the first guy to ever open a door for her, the first person to ever tell her she's smart, the first person to ever tell her she's doing things right, the first person to ever tell her she's the best thing to ever happen to them, etc.<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>I feel like I could do more but I'm not sure what to do. I've been doing all the usual romance things, right? Writing love notes, drawing pictures, giving her flowers, doing little gestures, feeding her, surprise gifts, all that.<br><br>&#x200B;<br><br>What else could I do to show her that she is important to me, she's everything to me, she's the most beautiful woman I've ever seen in my life and I want her to know that?

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