What are your controversial opinions about men and women?

I'll go first. I have a job where I see a lot of couples break up all the time. My conclusion is that you don't break up when you have a fight, you break up when you realize you should've broken up a long time ago, and the fight just tips the scale.<br><br>I see a lot of women who ask "My boyfriend said/did ______. Should I break up with him?". I've come to the conclusion it's better to advise them to break up with him because 1. it will get them out of a relationship that will fail, and 2. women are way too tolerant of their mediocre bfs and need to be encouraged to see a relationship as 50-50. You will always see "My boyfriend has no ambition, does drugs, is emotionally abusive to me, hasn't been looking for a job for 2 years, is a racist, has no job/life skills, has a small dick, is lazy, has no common sense, etc. Should I break up with him?" These relationships are always doomed to fail, and the best advice is to leave them asap. It will save you both the trouble of wasting your time.<br><br>If you use chambers, you have probably seen similar posts. The reason why I bring this up is because I am sure there are a lot of men in relationships with women who aren't putting out, or have let themselves go, or have a big attitude, or ask their boyfriend to do all the housework, or who have let themselves become stupid or manipulative. I think these types of relationships should end, and it will always be better for the man to leave the relationship. The woman will not see a problem with her behavior.<br><br>I have seen a lot of men tolerating mediocre gfs. They are with gfs who have automatically become a bitch the moment they got "comfortable". Looking at you Karen. You will see men posts of "My gf was automatically angry that I bought a newer car (even if I deserved it) while she bought a purse for $______". These relationships are also doomed to fail. If a woman automatically gets mad because you buy yourself something, she is too insecure to tolerate. Also, if you get mad because your gf buys herself something nice, that is a big red flag.<br><br>I've also come to the conclusion that you should always choose loyalty over love. You can't have a happy relationship if the other person isn't loyal. If you cheat on your spouse, you have automatically failed as a person. This is another reason why I think some relationships should fail. If your partner has no loyalty, you should leave automatically. A lot of people in relationships tolerate their spouses lack of loyalty because they "love" them. The truth is you can't have a happy relationship without loyalty, and it will always end in failure if you tolerate it. You should always leave a disloyal partner.<br><br>TL;DR: I think some relationships are automatically doomed to fail, and you should always leave asap. I think it's better to advise people to leave than to tolerate a bad relationship. I also think loyalty is more important than love. This is a discussion for men and women.<br><br>Edit: I was expecting way more hate. Thanks for the level headed discussion :)