One Of Many ?

I was left in the dark for almost 30 years , it's been horrible , and i don't know how to stop it from affecting me and my family.<br>I came home to find a man in my house claiming that me and my sister were his children and that my father was my biological father.<br>He backed up his claims with DNA tests and eventually I found out I had several siblings and that it was a long term thing.<br>My father now deceased admitted the whole thing on his death bed.<br>My family are completely torn, my mother is adamant that she and my father were happy and that this has been a malicious attempt to destroy them and me ?<br>She refuses to believe that they were having an affair and that I am the result of that.<br>My sister and her children are on my mothers side, and my brother's are on my side and would love to meet our new relatives .<br>I'm just so lost and confused, it's been almost 2 years and it still feels like a long bad dream.