Why do I even bother trying act nice to women...?

I was at the grocery store yesterday, and I was washing my hands in the bathroom. There were 2 women in there, and they were talking about how they were "not taking the vaccine". As I was washing my hands, I said "yep, it's poison, that's for sure" and I gave them both a thumbs up. They were laughing and one of the women came up to me and said "we're just not going to risk it, you know?" and this is where I act nice. When this woman approached me, I smiled at her and said "I completely understand, that's why I'm not taking it." Then I started to think about it afterwards, why do I even bother? I could have just told her "Good luck with that". <br><br>Its hard for me not to be nice. I use to be a changed man when I was in my early 20's and full of hate for women. As I got older, I started to display more empathy... I just plainly try to be nice to everyone, and I'm not sure why I shouldn't be. I swear, I don't have a lot of luck in dating and my dating life consists of "oh wow, I can't believe that you're not a creep or an asshole like the rest of them" and I'm always thinking to myself... "yeah, act nice, act nice, you never know...". I just plainly try to be nice to everyone, even women. I don't understand why I even bother.<br><br>I mean, look at this chamber, and all the other chambers that are anti-women. I can see why many men feel that way, and they have every right to. I don't understand why I just personally can't do it. I act nice to everyone, it just comes natural to me. I'm not some social reject or anything like that, I just have this natural thing to be nice to people. I've just had that mindset my whole life. I can't not be that way. I can act nice to everyone, but women?... I plainly don't even know why I bother sometimes. I just don't want to be an asshole.