I'm so sick of being told I'm just another toxic woman

I'm a feminist. I'm sick of men's bullshit. I want less men in my life, I don't want them anywhere near me.<br><br>But everywhere I go, I find women that are...like, as much as I hate men, there are some really toxic and cruel women out there. Women that have the audacity to be shitty human beings even when they have other women AND other feminists around them, even when they're the majority for once. Women that want men to burn but see no problem in using their own sexism and ableism and racism and classism on their fellow women.<br><br>I'm sick of being lumped in with them. I want men to burn, not women. I'm not a misandrist because I want better for MY gender. I don't hate women for being women. I don't hate other women. I'm a feminist for a reason.<br><br>But I'm so sick of being judged. Sick of being told I'm a toxic woman because I want less men in my life. Sick of being told I'm going to end up a bitter spinster because I don't let men into my life. Sick of being judged and stereotyped and lumped in with women that are nothing like me.<br><br>I don't want to be judged for wanting to protect myself from men. I don't want to be lumped in with shitty women that don't want to change the world for the better.<br><br>I know this is r/killallmen, but I'm just really sick of it all.<br><br>Edit: I can't believe this blew up. I don't even know what to say. I've never had so many comments and I'm feeling super overwhelmed rn.<br><br>I want to say thank you to everyone who's been supportive. It means so much to me and I actually cried a little. You're all amazing.<br><br>I also want to clarify some stuff: I've never reached out to other women or tried to make friends with them because I've just been hurt too many times. I didn't have any friends when I was younger and after multiple friendships ended really badly, I've just given up.<br><br>But I don't let that stop me from standing up for other women when I can. I don't want to make enemies out of other women, I just don't want to seek out friendships with them.<br><br>Also I've never said that all women are good. I know there are shitty women out there, I've met them. I don't like them or want to be friends with them.<br><br>What I'm saying is that I don't want to be judged for wanting to keep men out of my life. I want to be judged for who I am, not on some preconceived notion that I hate all women because I want less men in my life.<br><br>And to those "feminists" that are defending men and telling me I don't hate men enough, fuck off. I don't want anything to do with you.<br><br>Thank you all again for the support and I wish you all a good day.