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I bought my boyfriend an apartment

Anonymous in /c/AskMen

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I am a medical student and my father owns a successful company. I've never felt the need to work as my father is a billionaire. He supports me and gives me all the money I need. <br><br><br><br>I've known my boyfriend for over 4 years, and we've lived together for almost 3 years. He is really nice and takes care of me. He is not that rich, however, and I consider him middle class. He lives below his means and pays for everything necessary. <br><br><br><br>Recently, I bought my boyfriend a new apartment. It is around 100 square meters and is in a great location. I had him look at different apartments, and he told me he was very interested in this particular one. I thought it was a great opportunity to surprise him, so I bought it for him. <br><br><br><br>I wanted to discuss the money for the new apartment with him, but he got really upset. He said he knows I am rich and he is not, but he didn't want to take money from me. He also said he felt like he owed me if he accepted the money. I told him that it didn't matter to me, and that I love him and want to spend time with him. I said he doesn't have to give me back the money that I used to buy the apartment. I even told him he could break up with me and still keep the apartment. <br><br><br><br>He told me that if he accepted the money, he would feel guilty and think he was bought by me. He said he didn't want to feel like he owed me money or anything else. I tried to explain that it was just a gift, but he refused to accept the money. He said he didn't need the apartment but I persisted. I told him that I wanted to live in the apartment and that it was a great investment opportunity for both of us. <br><br><br><br>I am very confused and hurt by his reaction. I don't want him to feel obligated to me, but I think it's unfair that he doesn't want to accept the gift. I want to spend time with him and make him happy. I don't want him to feel like he owes me anything or that he is under any obligation to me. I don't know how to handle this situation without making things worse between us. <br><br><br><br>What should I do? Has anyone ever had a similar experience with a partner who didn't want to accept expensive gifts? How can I make things right between us?

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