Why do women get so angry over the 'no ladies' movement?

I’ve been seeing this a lot on tiktok and yt, women are acting angry about ‘no ladies’ over literally nothing. They will post a video and get angry over men saying they don’t date ‘ladies’ then say they aren’t a lady or don’t act like a lady. They will also say they don’t even like the term lady and say they’re just regular people acting normally, yet they’re angry that men don’t want to date ‘ladies’? They are calling men insecure for not acting like ‘ladies’ (no work, no chef, no housewife, no car, no money, no body) yet men are talking about regular people acting normally and not ‘ladies’. What the hell is wrong with these people? They’re acting like men are saying they don’t want to date ‘regular people’.