A woman agreed to go on a date with me for the first time in my life.

I was nervous. It didn’t work out. She bailed last minute. <br><br>I think that maybe I should’ve agreed to meet at a bar/club instead of a restaurant. Women are more likely to commit to meeting up at one of those types of places because she’s already planning to go to the bar/club. <br><br>It was a match from bumble. If it were from tinder it would’ve been a waste of time because tinder matches don’t change into irl dates. <br><br>I feel like bumble has more serious women. They are the type of women who are looking for a serious relationship. They are usually older, more mature and career oriented. I think they have jobs because they’re not lazy. If a woman has a job, she’s more serious, less flaky. <br><br>I need to dress better, try harder, be more patient and persistent. I need to be willing to approach women in real life. I have to be less afraid of rejection. I can’t be too discouraged when things don’t work out.<br><br>I should go online more often to increase my chances of meeting women and getting more matches. <br><br>I need to stop giving up so quickly. I have to put in the work if I want to succeed in anything, including dating.