This sub is the reason I no longer identify as a feminist

I've posted this in various different feminist subs but been repeatedly down voted and called a 'typical white woman'. I'm sorry but I don't want to be part of a movement which sees it as ok to incite violence. I'm so sad and disappointed and I'm don't know what I think about the feminist movement anymore. Does anyone know of any feminist subs that don't incite violence? I don't want my account banned so don't want to mention any specific subs but it's been a real eye opener.