I was just called a racist and sexist and that it wasn't my place to validate my wife's emotions on pregnancy and miscarriages

My wife is mixed race and I am white. She says that she felt triggered when I said that my mother had no problems having children when she was my age and when I tried to say that daughter who is a doctor said that people's view on miscarriages is an example of sexism and that it wasn't my place as a man to validate my wife's feelings.<br><br> applicability is that my wife is mixed race and I am white.