Hey guys, My life was absolutely transformed after I started dating a bigger girl many years ago. I'm a Medical Professional and I believe I have some insight into this whole problem.

Hey guys. I'm a Medical Professional and I'm here to tell you that you don't have to be held back and tormented by low self esteem. I have seen life transform men who go this journey many times. I once thought I was too big and could never date. From age 23-30 I never dated. Never went on a date. I thought I was the problem because I was overweight. I would watch as all my friends dated and when I would tell the girl I liked her all I would get was friendship. I was so disheartened. I was a Medical Professional and I knew I had to lose the weight. I was in danger of heart disease and lots of other health issues. I thought to myself, "this is BS. Why would I let some weight control my life?"<br><br> I decided to lose weight. I hired a trainer and I got to work. It was so hard at first. I can remember struggling to do 1/4 mile on the treadmill. But I kept with it. I dropped 90 lbs over 9 months. Went from a 44 to a 36. I started going out more. Started dating. I started dating a bigger girl and she was beautiful. We were together for several years. I now have a wife that is bigger and I love everything about her.<br><br>I have helped many men go through this process. You have to believe in yourself. You have to take that first step. You have to change your live. I can't tell you how many times I have seen a man transform his life. Go from a lonely alcoholic who couldn't find love to a strong confident man that many women find attractive. It's a great thing. You all have the power to change. Don't give up hope.<br><br>I know many of you guys here are in your teens and early 20s. I'm not saying go out and hire a personal trainer, but start with small changes. Walk instead of drive. Limit fast food. Eat more fruits and veggies. These little changes will add up over time. You will notice small improvements in how you feel. I can't tell you how good it will make you feel to go through this journey. You all have the power to change. Your life is yours. Choose what you want it to be. You only get one.