(I'm a graphic designer, 35M) My fiancee (32F) asked me to make her a "thirst trap" image... for those panties I've never seen before.
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First post in this sub! I'm in a long-distance relationship right now, so I'm flying to see those panties tomorrow and gather more info. lol <br>This is going to be a long post but bear with me. I'm not the best writer, so bare with me. I also have a few questions at the end of the post. This whole thing is a bit confusing to me and I'd like to hear your thoughts. <br><br>I've been with my fiancee for six years now. We met through mutual friends and have never had one issue. We are planning to get married next year, once we move in together. We plan on living in my state but we're currently in a long distance relationship right now. She works as a teacher in our home state. I work as a graphic designer in the state I currently live in. I travel to see her a couple of times a month and she comes to where I am once a month. Everything is going well, our careers are going well and we figured it's the right time to settle down.<br><br>​<br><br>I was working yesterday when I got the text. It was a normal day for me, I've been getting a ton of work done due to a recent promotion. I had just gotten back from visiting my fiancee a week ago and we planned for me to come back in a week. I got a text saying, "Working?". I replied "yes" and she said "Make me a thirst trap ?" I've made several "thirst traps" of myself for my fiancee before, so I thought she was joking. I replied, "no...this time you're making one for me." I thought she was going to send some form of nudes of herself for me. She replied "I need you to edit something first." I was so confused... edit? I was expecting a photo of her, not something to edit. <br><br>I figured she wanted me to edit photos of her from our last visit. It was just her and I for those photos. The photos of her would be for Instagram and SHE made me delete the ones with cleavage. So I asked, "can I see it?" She replied that she can't send it to me because it was "inappropriate." So I asked, "What specifically needs editing?" I thought maybe it was something where she wanted me to blur something. She said... "Blow up my butt." I was so confused...I just asked "where?". She said, "on my ass, it's the last photo I sent." She had an Instagram post of her in a black dress. The photo was an odd angle as it was taken above her, but it was just a photo of her from the waist up. I asked her, "I thought you weren't sending the thirst trap yet?" She said "I sent it in the last text." I was so confused, but I looked up at my phone and there was a text saying "Thirst trap". I didn't see it when she sent it. So I opened the photo and it was a photo of a woman wearing a thong. I was so confused and I thought this was a joke. <br><br>Now I know that some of you are going to say... that's not your fiancee and you already know the answer. Like, I know that this is not my fiancee. I know that for a FACT. I've been with her for six years. I know what she looks like...trust me. When looking at the photo, it looked like the skin tone was right. I still remember her smell. I just don't know what the fuck was going on. I know it's not her, but something was going on. <br><br>I thought, "This is a joke?" "No...this is not a joke." I then noticed something, this was an edited photo. I've done several edits for her before, so I can spot my own edits fairly easily. The thing is, I never edit photos of some random person's butt in a thong. My fiancee never asks for stuff like that. I thought she was playing some type of joke and I just decided to roll with it. I said "You want me to blow up your butt?" She said "Yes, but I need it to be more round, and if you can make my thighs thicker, I'd like that." I asked "why?" She said, "I want to look sexy." I said "why?" I was just trying to get answers for the joke...or I guess at that point, I felt like I was in some type of bad sitcom. She said, "I just want to look sexy." I said "OK, but what are these for?" I asked "are you going to put these on instagram?" She said "no." I asked where she was going to post them and she said "send them to a few people." I asked "who?" She said "I'm not telling." I asked "do I know them?" She said "yes." I asked "is it a friend?" She said "yes." I asked "why does your friend need this photo?" She said, "I just want them to have it." I asked "why?" She said "I just want them to have it." I was just trying to get answers but I wasn't getting any. I know that this is some form of a joke right? I just decided to roll with it. I downloaded the photo and opened it in photoshop. I honestly didn't know what to do. <br><br>I looked closer and there was something different. I realized that part of the photo was already edited. I saw how the skin tone was different. I saw how the underwear didn't match the rest of her. It was the underwear that didn't match the rest of her. I zoomed in and noticed that the underwear were blurred a bit, you could tell that was edited in. I zoomed in more and I just saw that the photo was heavily edited, but nobody but me noticed. There was a bunch of blurs throughout the photo, you could tell that the blur tool was used on certain parts of the photo. It just looked odd. <br><br>I decided to just edit the photo like she asked for. I decided to ask "is this good?" She replied, "no." I asked "why?" She said "I don't like it." So I asked "how come?" She said "just edit it again." I thought "fine." I decided to show her how dumb this joke was. I decided to go all out and edit the photo like she asked for. I made the whole butt just the underwear. It was a giant square where her butt was. I also made her thighs bigger. I made them bigger than what she asked for, just to show her how dumb this joke was. I thought "I'll show you" I sent the photo to her and she just said "thank you". I just thought "wow". That's it? That's not what I expected. I thought she would just laugh at the photo. I thought she would just say "OK, that's enough." I just thought she would say something. Instead, she didn't.<br><br>I just stopped replying to her and went back to work. I just didn't know what to say after that. I didn't know what else to do. <br><br>I know that this isn't my fiancee but still, I have all of these questions running through my mind. I just don't even know what to think right now. Why is my fiancee asking me to edit where her butt is? Why does she want to look sexy? Why does she want me to make her look sexy in panties that aren't hers? Why did I have to blur everything? Why did she want me to make her thighs bigger? Why is she sending these photos to other people? Why are these photos for other people? Why is this going on? Why did we have to keep it a secret? Why did she have to tell me to stop replying? Why did I have to delete the photos after editing them? Why, why why, why, why, why, why, why...<br><br>I asked her a few more questions after that and she stopped replying. I just tried to get more information and she just let me hang. I don't even know where to go from here. I know I still have time left before we get married, but this is just too confusing. <br><br>​<br><br>I'm flying out to see her tomorrow. So we'll either have a talk or I guess those panties are going to meet their end. <br><br>​<br><br>​<br><br>EDIT2: I'm flying to where she is tomorrow and I'll be there until Saturday. She said she's busy all of Friday and we'll talk Sunday.<br><br>EDIT: I've been reading all of the comments. I know that this is not my fiancee...trust me. I get that this is a "thirst trap" for other people and I get that she's not being loyal. I've been with her for 6 years.
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