I got a taste of how you guys feel.

I'm a 22 year old woman who's been in a relationship with my bf for the last 6-7 years. Lately I've noticed I've been doing all the legwork in this relationship, anything he can't do himself he expects me to do for him. Originally I didn't mind this, I enjoy cooking and cleaning but then I realized that it isn't help I'm doing, It's more like labor. I don't make as much as him, but I do the bulk of the housework and cooking. My friends keep telling me I should just leave him but I'm so scared, I have no idea what I'm doing because whenever I try to do things on my own I suck and it ends up failing. I want to go back to school to get a better job, I want to learn how to swim and how to drive and all these things but I can't seem to do it on my own.<br><br>I've tried talking to him about it but he always says that I don't have a right to complain because "I don't pay rent" or "I'm not the primary breadwinner" I feel so lost and so unsure of what to do, I feel so useless and It's starting to make me really resentful.<br><br>I'm really sorry if this is off topic, but I just don't know what to do and I thought that maybe you guys could see things from a different perspective.