I love my wife but it’s over

Our anniversary is this coming week and I’m dreading it. My wife suggested we go to a fancy restaurant with our daughter and I just said okay. I don’t hate her or even dislike her. I love her but our marriage is over. We were married young and didn’t have enough life experience. Before we turned 25 we already had a kid. We don’t like the same things anymore and the only reason we are still together is our daughter. My wife’s career really took off while I’m just a glorified IT guy at a company. I work 40 hours a week and she works 60 but makes four times my salary. <br><br>I know this sounds crazy but I feel like I’m her son and not her husband. I try to plan things and surprise her but she always seems so annoyed with me. She’s a very type A person and doesn’t like her routine messed with. Whenever I try to initiate sex she’s not in the mood. She will lay in bed and watch TV. I am starting to feel like we’re just two people with a kid together. I don’t feel loved by her anymore. <br><br>Her birthday was in December and she wanted me to buy her a Louis Vuitton bag. I love her and it’s just a material item but she was so disappointed in me. She said I didn’t get her anything she wanted and spent money on something I thought she would like. It was a designer bag but from a different company. She didn’t talk to me until I got her the right bag. <br><br>She’s just not the same girl I fell in love with. I don’t recognize this woman. I feel like I’m living in an alternate universe. Her career took off fast. She went from a teacher to working in a high up position at a fortune 500 company. I’m just a regular guy and I feel like she outgrew me. She’s probably over 5 million now. I want to tell her how I feel but I’m worried it will destroy our daughter. I know I should be grateful she supports our family so well but the money isn’t the problem.