My (28F) boyfriend (38M) of 18 months received oral sex from a stripper at his friend’s wedding

Boyfriend of 18 months. We live together, see each other every day, he’s totally the love of his life and he is absolutely committed to me. He would never cheat. Neither of us have ever even had a problem with cheating or fidelity. <br><br>He went to a friend’s bachelor party in Cabo last weekend. On the second night, they went back to a private house and hired strippers. Boyfriend got a blow job from one of the strippers. <br><br>He said he was so drunk that he can’t even remember it. He said the whole night is a blur. <br><br>For me, even if he was blackout, it was still physically intimate and feels like a larger boundary for me. I am gutted. Truly. I can’t believe he let this happen. I am so hurt and betrayed. I don’t want to end the relationship, but I’m not sure I can move forward with this. I don’t want to, I feel so awful. <br><br>How would you handle this if you were me?<br><br>TL;DR - Boyfriend got a BJ from a stripper hired at his friend’s bachelor party and I’m so hurt