My stalker ex-boyfriend found me on Facebook.
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Throwaway account because my friends and family do not know I have a stalker ex-boyfriend.<br><br>Back in 2011, I dated a guy named Zach for a few months. I found out 3 weeks into the relationship that he was already married and had another girlfriend on the side. Obviously this was a huge red flag and I broke up with him immediately. His wife found out about our relationship and confronted me, and during our conversation, I made it clear that it had ended and that I would not be pursuing anything further with him or them.<br><br>Or so I thought.<br><br>For the next 2 years, Zach kept trying to contact me. At first I thought it was his wife, but when I asked him about it he said it was him. I would block him and he would just make a new profile. He would show up at my workplace under ridiculous pretexts (once he claimed he was a potential employee looking for a job, another time he said he was a customer wanting to return a pair of boots). It got to the point where I had to switch jobs twice because he would show up there as well. I moved states, and he would show up at my new workplace. He would even come to my house and ring the doorbell, but I never answered and my roommates never let him in. <br><br>I reported him to the police several times but nothing ever came of it. The first few times I blocked him, the police were able to track his IP address to a particular area, but they could never find him. Eventually they stopped even taking reports from me because they could never find anything on him. I also had to switch my phone number several times because he would text/call me, and my carrier couldn't track the location of the phone that was texting/calling me.<br><br>Eventually I was at my wit's end and moved again. I thought for sure that he wouldn't be able to find me again. But one day, I got a message on Facebook from an old high school friend of his. I looked at his profile, and it was most definitely Zach. It was under an old friend's name, but it was definitely his profile. He had found me on Facebook. I blocked him and reported him, but nothing came of it.<br><br>This was a couple of years ago, but I'm much too afraid to delete my Facebook account because I'm scared that he'll find me again.<br><br>This is all so messed up and I don't even know where to begin. I feel like my life is a prison sentence that I will never get out of.
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