I am a woman and I do not want to marry

I am a woman of 25 and I have been thinking for a long time about marrying. Almost all my friends are married or engaged, and it's on my mind. I want to marry, but I don't want to marry. I don't want to be a single mother, a second mother who takes care of her husband as if he were a child because he cannot take care of himself.<br><br>I want to be in a relationship with a man who knows how to cook, clean, iron and do the laundry, who knows how to cook and go out to work, who can travel alone, who can go out with his friends or family, who can make decisions alone, who can go to the bank alone, who can take care of himself alone, who can cook if I'm not at home.<br><br>I don't want to marry a man who can't be a man of his own free will. I don't want to marry a boy. I don't want to take away his video games, his friends, his family. I want an adult, a mature man.<br><br>I don't care if he's handsome or ugly. I don't care if he's rich or not. I want a man who knows how to cook, clean, iron and do the laundry, who knows how to cook and go out to work, who can travel alone, who can go out with his friends or family, who can make decisions alone, who can go to the bank alone, who can take care of himself alone, who can cook if I'm not at home.<br><br>I don't want to marry a man who can't be a man of his own free will. I don't want to marry a boy. I don't want to take away his video games, his friends, his family. I want an adult, a mature man.<br><br>I want to marry a man.<br><br>*Edit: My family is American and I'm European. I was born and raised in Europe and only knew my dad's side of the famuly as a child. I started travelling to the US from the age of 12, so even though I'm European, I feel like an American. Sorry about the confusion guys.<br><br>Also, I'm not my husband's mother or father. If he doesn't run after me, I won't run after him, and if he can't cook, he'll die of hunger. I'm not his mother.