Why did men stop asking/wanting about their partner's pleasure?

I am 27 (F) and have been sexually active since I was 18. I've had many partners before my husband. And something I've noticed is that my husband, unlike my other partners, do not ask if I've cummed or ask if I'm okay. He is a very kind, loving, and gentle man. He respects me and always makes sure I'm happy and treated well. I don't think he is trying to be rude or inconsiderate of me. And I've tried talking to him about it by asking him if he remembers asking me if I've cummed after making love, and he says he doesn't.<br><br>I remember all of my other partners talking to me about if I was okay, if I was about to cum, and if I had cummed. They always made sure I cummed and even waited for me to cum before cumming themselves. I think that's why they all wanted me to go first. They don't want to cum before me because they knew that would be rude.<br><br>Men, do you talk to your partner about their pleasure? Do you ask them if they cummed? Do you wait for them to cum before cumming yourself? I don't think asking about someone's pleasure is rude or makes someone uncomfortable. In fact, it makes me feel safe, comfortable, and loved when someone asks me about my pleasure.