My (30F) husband (31M) bought a house without me knowing.

I 30F met my husband 31M 10 years ago. We got married 7 years ago. We have twin boys aged 4 and a baby girl (18 months). We have been renting a 3 bedroom apartment which we both are happy with. <br><br>He has just recently told me that he has bought a new house. I was really surprised and asked when he would be moving in. He just looked at me and said it’s ours. I asked when did he plan on telling me about it if not for the realtor contacting me. He said, he didn’t want to tell me until it was a sure thing. We have been to see the house and I like it but I’m mad that he went behind my back. I feel like I wasn’t given a choice, I was never asked if I wanted to move or stay. I wanted to live in an apartment until the kids are big but he said that, that’s too long.<br><br>I feel like he’s trying to control me and I don’t know what to do.