Why are things worse for incels in the US?

Hello all, I’m Mexican, I don’t have any social media outside of Spotify and amazon wishlist so no one knows anything about me. I’ve been incel since i was 17, im 22 now, my life is quite good, I had sex twice when i was 18, and im an ugly person at least thats what i consider myself. Little to no attraction to how i look, so it does not bother me. I have a good paying job, 3k USD, around 40k MXN, doing well, i also live by myself in a nice house in a nice neighborhood. My life is actually quite boring, besides that im quite good, im not good at talking to people though, but i dont mind, i dont need to. So, my question is, why are you americans forced to have a shitty life? I dont know if its because of the minimum wage, im not good at talking so i dont have a problem getting a good paying job, but i imagine they do in the US and everywhere, but at least minimum wage here is actually enough if you live with your family, im sure if you have a family to feed then things change, so my question is why are things so bad for you, an why i didn’t have such a life. I know its because im a beaner but im not so sure why, why are things so bad for americans while things were so good for me.