The world really is shite for men

I’ve finally seen the light after a few recent events and I’ve started to understand what a lot of you guys are saying. <br><br>I’ve just finished University and am a few years into my early 20’s, and if I’m honest I thought the “sigma male” “I hate women” “mgtow” thing was just a bunch of in Cel’s venting about their lack of success with women and everyday life. I was surprised that these communities were so huge and assumed they were just sad lonely guys. <br><br>I’ve been dumped a couple of times, but I always had a steady supply of partners and a very supportive family and friendship circle. I’ve had a lot of success in my studies and life generally. I have a very well paid job for someone of my age and I always try to stay positive and take other people’s problems onto my shoulders to help them. <br><br>The penny finally dropped for me when I found out that my ex girlfriend who I was with for over a year cheated on me because she wanted to feel desired, so she went and had a one night stand with some guy who was much more well endowed than me. I confronted her and I was so angry and upset by it. She admitted it all to me and I couldn’t understand why she would do that. I was good to her, I looked after her, I took care of her, I was supporting her; and this is how she repays me? I was so angry.<br><br>Then a couple of days later, my best mate who is a great guy and very good looking and has been with his girlfriend for over 5 years; they live together, they were thinking about getting married, they were solid. He told me that he got a message on instagram from a randomly guy who was thanking him for taking care of his girlfriend while he was away for 6 months. He was confused and asked what guy it was. It turned out to be the same guy from my ex girlfriend’s infidelity. <br><br>My best mate confronted his girlfriend and she admitted to having a long term affair with this guy who clearly goes around sleeping with these women who are in long term relationships. I was pissed off. I told my mate he’s better off without her and he needs to get her out of his house. He was so emotional, I’ve never seen him in such a state. He was crying and wailing and just heartbroken. His whole life was a lie because of this bitch.<br><br>And then I saw a post in another community I subscribe to, a post from a “woman” saying that she found out her boyfriend of 4 years was cheating on her when they went out to eat at a restaurant and the waiter asked how his “2 girlfriends” were doing. She was in tears and the comments were full of women supporting her and telling her she’s better off without him; dumping a half eaten meal on his head. <br><br>This made me angry because my mate is going through exactly the same thing and he got nothing like the level of sympathy this woman did. It’s ok for women to sympathise with other women and support them, but they won’t do that for men. Men are meant to be strong. But in reality, we aren’t.<br><br>I checked back in on the post a few days later and the woman had posted an update saying that her ex boyfriend had reached out to her, apologised profusely and begged for her forgiveness and a second chance. She said that she was willing to forgive him and would give him another chance, and she has taken him back. My mate on the other hand is a mess, he’s not himself anymore and is in a terrible place psychologically. <br><br>So that’s it, I’ve seen the light. I’ve experienced it first hand through two very different situations and I see what a lot of you guys mean. Women are just not on our level and most of them are pieces of shite.<br><br>I’m done with women and I’m going to stay single for a long time.