I want a relationship with a man, not a woman.

Im a woman. I just want a relationship with a man where I don’t have to fight about these stupid gender roles.<br><br>I want to be able to have a man take care of me. I have a career but I don’t want to work all the time. I want to have a partner who takes care of us both financially and in the household.<br><br>The stereotype that all women want a sugar daddy is just as offensive to me as the stereotype that all men are sexist shithead misogynists is to men.<br><br>Look. I don’t want to compete with a man.<br><br>I hate that the way society is set up now is like this stupid competition of the sexes. Women are taught to be as cold hearted as men. We are told we have to be too good and too pretty. We are constantly degraded by the society and we have to be angry about it but in a classy way or else we get degraded more.<br><br>I just want a relationship. I want a partner who will take be a breadwinner and take care of me and the house. I want to be able to do what I want and have fun with him. I want to be happy. I want to be able to make him happy. I want to be a home maker and the way my generation has been socialized to see that as a sexist concept instead of the hard work that it is pisses me off.<br><br>I want to be able to take care of a man. I want to be able to make him happy. I want to be in a relationship where I am able to trust him and he can trust me. I want to feel safe and supported.<br><br>I feel like this is not allowed in the society we have today. We are taught to be hyper vigilant to all the ways he is oppressing us. We are taught to be offended by anything he does. We are not allowed to want to be taken care of. We are not allowed to want to take care of.<br><br>I am so tired of it all. I want a relationship that is about two people who are working together to build a happy future.<br><br>I want to be able to be in a relationship that is separated from the outside world. I don’t want the world to intrude into my relationship. I don’t want my gender identity to intrude into my relationship. I just want us.<br><br>I want to be able to love and be loved. I want that.<br><br>I want a relationship with a man, not a gender war.