Do NOT message everyone you meet on dating apps. Do NOT message everyone you meet in real life if you want to date them. Everyone who asks you out isn't cool.

If you think "Hot girls don't talk to me, how rude! They don't want to give me a chance." then you are wrong. I'm a hot girl and I'm not gonna talk to you. I'm not gonna talk to you because I don't want to date you. I'm not gonna talk to you because I'm not all that interested in dating. I'm not gonna talk to you because I don't think you'd be good for me. I'm not gonna talk to you because I already date someone else. I'm not gonna talk to you because I got better things to do than date anyone. I'm not gonna talk to you because I'm too busy to date. I'm not gonna talk to you because you're too ugly. I'm not gonna talk to you because we're not friends, and that's just rude, I don't talk to my friends about my sex life. <br><br>That's not rude. If you thought that every girl you've ever hit up was a total bitch for not talking to you, not responding to your message, or not dating you, you were wrong. I am every hot girl you've ever met. I'm Lyla from Model Mayhem who's into alternative modeling. I'm Savannah from OkCupid who works at the library. I am that girl who always seems like she's in a hurry, the one who doesn't make eye contact or answer questions when you talk to her, the one who's by herself at the bar, the one who's looking around awkwardly when you're trying to talk to her, the one who's wearing headphones, the one who's playing with her phone, the one with a bag of fast food and on her way to work. If you want to talk to me, start with a conversation. If you want to date me, ask me out and be patient. If I say no, accept my decision and don't contact me again. If you keep talking to me like you want to date me, you're being an asshole, and I'll treat you like an asshole.<br><br>EDIT: To those who want to date, perhaps romanticize the idea less.