My (29F) boyfriend (29M) hasn't lost his virginity yet even though I tried initiating sex a few times. How should I bring this up?

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 14 months. We got together after I broke up with my ex-fiancé.<br><br>My boyfriend is a geeky gamer boy and he loves me. I love him too. Except that he is still a virgin.<br><br>I've tried to initiate sex a few times but he was all like 'not yet'. I've hinted at it, suggested watching porn together, left some lingerie out in the open but he always denied it.<br><br>It's getting really frustrating and I'm starting to wonder if he's even into me sexually. I'm lost at what to do because I don't know how to bring it up and I don't want to pressure him into anything.<br><br>Please help. I really don't want this relationship to end.<br><br>EDIT: I don't think I made it clear enough that we live together so we see each other pretty everyday.<br><br>So we had 'the talk' today and he admitted that he is really insecure about his body and weight and he was really scared that I would reject him.<br><br>I reassured him and honestly he's not that bad. A little chubby but nothing major and he's really working on it.<br><br>We're going to have a couple more conversations before anything more happens. But yeah. That's it.<br><br>Happy to say he is no longer virgin. <br><br>It was a great first time and he says he's really happy now.<br><br>Not lying but I couldn't stop giggling because he is just so cute and I was just so happy for him.<br><br>So yeah tldr we did it and he loved it :)